I’m a pansexual trans boy and am far from out of the closet. Since I have short hair, whenever it’s flat down on my head without any volume ( the way I like it), my mom always tells me to do something with it ’cause she “won’t let me leave the house looking like a boy”. I always hope she means it like it’s a good thing, but I know she doesn’t. I know I won’t be able to come out properly till I move out on my own, but it’s starting to really hurt. She is after having a conversation wih me about how i’m a girl, not a boy. And the fact that my friends are leaving me out when the “squad” hangs out ( I mean EVERY time) is not helping. I don’t know how much longer I’m going to be able to handle all this.